Are you Attractive?

When asked whether you are attractive, what is your response?

I wonder how many people out there think of themselves as attractive and how many don't think they are. I guess if you're thinking positively we're all attractive it's just all in the eye of the beholder. But to think of yourself as attractive. Is that conceited? Is it confident? Or are you lying to yourself?

In my solitude I've come across a hobby, I like to check out the people who list themselves on CL as searching for someone, mainly m4w because I think to myself "well, that's where I would be looking anyway if indeed I was looking to actually pursue this" jajajaja anyway so it just baffles me at how some people's headline says something like Attractive guy looking for woman or whatever but then you look at their picture and you're like whoa! attractive to who! and then is that I wonder do these people really think they're attractive?? Or do they lie to themselves in order to fool people into clicking. Then the other thing that makes me laugh is those that say it has a pic but it's a random picture of a jello box or some sunset, or whatever but it's not them! That just makes me think automatically that you're not attractive. Which automatically rules you out. (of course if this was a for real search)

Anyway in case you wanted to know my response. I don't think I'm attractive. I feel that I'm fat. and that's that. Of course I have those people that tell me I'm not fat and I am attractive but somehow I'm not sure if it's just to make me feel good or if I'm just hard on myself. Either way I guess it keeps me humble, and very very very self conscious.

(Being truly honest I know that I'm not fat. and that I am semi-attractive. But it doesn't keep me from thinking the opposite.) I don't know which is better to be over confident or too humble?(in reference to your own looks)